Wednesday, November 3, 2010

THE "INDEPENDENT" WOMAN

For all the ladies proclaiming their "independence" with unbreakable confidence please read below to understand how YOU are ruining your interactions with men.Independent= not relying on another or others for aid or support. rejecting others' aid or support; refusing to be under obligation to others possessing a competency: to be financially independent. sufficient to support a person without his having to work: an independent income executed or originating outside a given unit, agency business, etc.; external: an independent inquiry working for oneself or for a small, privately owned business. expressive of a spirit of independence How does independence relate to men & marriage? Simple! Independence is the antonym of the "unity" a marriage requires to survive & women have vehemently proclaimed their right &"love" for their "independence" Hence we have: -a high divorce rate in this country -women can't keep men for a long period of time because men aren't tolerating the self- centeredness of independence -women claim there are no good black men when the real issue is that men are turned off by the aggressiveness,over opinionated confrontational, authoritative challenging, macho residual behaviors of independent women -most single women are single mothers by CHOICE VIA INDEPENDENCE & men avoid these women because of all the insane baggage associated with dealing with single mothers -bitter angry women especially single mothers feeling duped by their blind allegiance to independence.....

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  1. AMEN!!! When will women learn that being independent is not all its cracked up to be....biblically we were not put on earth to be the breadwinner....read Proverbs 31 ladies....that is what a Christian wife/woman/mother is....THanks for the post!!!!

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