Why I Have Chosen Celibacy

The best sex is blessed sex WAIT FOR MARRIAGE!! #TeamCelibate.. a lot of you see me say this a lot!! Now the reasons I have chosen to be celibate!!!

I have been having sex since I was 15. There isn't much I haven't done in the realm of sex.. EXCEPT wait!! See I cant get my virginity.. my purity and neither can you, but what you can do is choose from this day forward to be CELIBATE to refrain from sexual activity until your wedding day! Now although you're not a virgin (assuming you're not) God can still bless your sex! Repent for the sex you have had now and pray to him to break the soul ties you have acquired along the way.

Celibacy is hard.. you have to get to a place that God is fullfilling enough for you to fight the urges. You have to keep yourself from situations that you would normally fall victim to those sexual encounters. Personally I dont find myself alone with a man for long periods of time and after a certain time of the day. Although sex can happen during the day you're more likely to engage in it at night when the mood is right LOL.. how corny but really... I know a lot of believers who safe guard themselves by not being with their boyfriend or girlfriend past a certain time of day.

Now personally I have chosen celibacy because of my own convictions. God has delivered from the pits of hell literally satan and I were on first name basis. I was having men lust after me in strip clubs engaging in sex in the "vip" room.. oh yeah by the way.. sex really does happen in the champagne room... for the right amount of money any girl in that club would have sex.. and since it was the most upscale club in houston... sheeks, princes, CEO's, Politicians, Rappers, Athletes, anyone who could actually afford it could have sex... now fast forward... God convicted me and showed me that this is where I would minister to people.. but how could I be having sex and minister to girls and tell them what it would do to them.. isn't that hypocritical???????? Duh Tia thats the point you cant witness to anyone while you're engaging in sexual activities.. that's when I had to make a choice what was more important my salvation or sex? I chose to follow God and the convictions of my heart.

So here I am celibate and the longer and longer I go I get more excited.. I no longer have the urge to masturbate or watch porn.. Sex isn't even on my mind and if I do think about it I think about how exciting my wedding night is going to be becaues it's going to be blessed...by the creator of it My God!!!!

Celibacy was a hard choice because I was so sexually active and actually I craved it.. but not only did God deliver me from it he took away the urges!! I know that if he can do it for me he can do it for anyone!! People ask me all the time aren't you afraid of losing a man cause you wont have sex with him.. UM NO... I'm afraid of losing my salvation if I do have sex with a man. IF a man cant wait and wont wait until marriage then he is not the man for me. No man is worth my salvation.. and no woman should worth you "guys" that are out there having sex. It's not just your salvation it's your heart, your soul, your health (mental and physical). If you think that having sex doesn't affect any of those areas you are being deceived and fooled. I urge you to at least consider the benefits of celibacy.

Here are a few
You can pray for your soul ties to be broken
You will get closer to God
You wont feel the pressures to "perform"

that's just 3 but personally I have clarity I dont have a lot of opposite sex stress I find my comfort in God instead the arms of a man that eventually leave. Celibacy has so many rewards!! And think about it!! Your wedding night sex will be AMAZING.. blessed by the creator of it.. YEAH HOW CAN YOU GO WRONG??

Just my 3 cents lol... God Bless