Monday, July 19, 2010

There really are good men out there....

LADIES LADIES LADIES...
Its come to my attention over and over that women as a whole think that there are no good men.. COME ON... If you really think that there are no good men left in this world I would encourage you to do some self examination. Not every man is a dog. It might be possible that that is all you attract because you put yourself out there like that.. Do you have a ton of provactive pictures on all of your networking sites? Do you wear clothes that are less then tasteful? What does your mouth sound like are you constantly walking around talking like an uneducated sailors mouth? Where do you go to meet me? THE CLUB? THE BAR? OR WAIT did you take someone elses man? These are all factors.

No man is going to respect a woman that he sees online half naked or fully naked. Hes not going to take you home to his mom and dad if you cant hold a conversation. TRUST ME it's a great thing to be pretty and have a good body BUT if you're using that good body and looks to make men lust after you that's all it's ever going to be is a lust game until something better comes along. TRUST ME there's always something better. If you cant mentally stimulate a man it's a wrap. I use to put provocative pictures all over my myspace page and I LOVED the negative attention I got. I thought I was the dopest thing walking the ladies hated me and their boyfriends loved me. THAT IS NOT THE WAY TO BE.. it leaves an emptiness in you.

I'm not gonna say I know men like the back of my hand BUT I will say that I know a good deal about men. I know that a good man desires a woman that isn't flaunting her nakedness all over the internet of all over the town. No man wants to hear his boys talking about how bad his girl is. Its a fact. They dont care if the jumpoff chic is being talked about but his girl the lady he wants to make his wife shouldn't be the topic of conversation when he's with his boys. If you cant rep your man in a respectful manner then he's not going to want you. If you've slept with all his homies that's not a good thing either. Whats a man gonna do stand there on your wedding day with half his groomsmen knowing they smashed?

Do you get what I'm saying? Where I'm going? I guess today isn't a good day for me to write so Imma come back to this one at a later date but enjoy for now

2 comments:

  1. You are speaking the absolute truth, though.

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  2. I respect women who aren't afraid to reveal hidden truth. For your post, I highly respect you.

    It's true. We have all done it. We have all loved the attention we got from men who had no business looking at us the way they did :)

    But God's mercy and love surpasses any man's attention! Yessir!

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